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Friday, April 28, 2006

Helicopter-ing




You can't really tell in these pictures, but Mia is "helicopter-ing" around on her stomach pretty well. She can move half way across the room in no time. We're really having to keep our eyes on her now.
Her school pictures came back yesterday and they are ABSOLUTELY PRECIOUS!!!! She was such a good poser. I wish they would teach me the trick to getting her to smile in professional pictures because she won't do it for me! :-)

Wednesday, April 26, 2006

The Price of Children

The Price of Children

This is just too good not to pass on to all.
Something absolutely positive for a change.
I have repeatedly seen the breakdown
of the cost of raising a child,
but this is the first time I have seen the
rewards listed this way. It's nice!

The government recently calculated the cost of raising a childfrom birth to 18 and came up with $160,140
for a middle income family. Talk about sticker shock!That doesn't even touch college tuition.

But $160,140 isn't so bad if you break it down. It translates into:

* $8,896.66 a year,

* $741.38 a month, or

* $171.08 a week.

* That's a mere $24.24 a day!

* Just over a dollar an hour.

Still, you might think the best financial advice
is don't have children if you want to be "rich."
Actually, it is just the opposite.

What do you get for your $160,140?

* Naming rights: first, middle, and last!!

* Glimpses of God every day.

* Giggles under the covers every night.

* More love than your heart can hold.

* Butterfly kisses and Velcro hugs.

* Endless wonder over rocks, ants, clouds, and warm cookies.

* A hand to hold, usually covered with jelly or chocolate.

* A partner for blowing bubbles, flying kites.

* Someone to laugh yourself silly with,
no matter what the boss said or how your stocks performed that day.

For $160,140, you never have to grow up. You get to:

* finger-paint,

* carve pumpkins,

* play hide-and-seek,

* catch lightning bugs, and

* never stop believing in Santa Claus.

You have an excuse to:

* keep reading the Adventures of Piglet and Pooh,

* watch Saturday morning cartoons,

* go to Disney movies, and

* wish on stars.

* You get to frame rainbows, hearts, and flowers under refrigerator magnets
and collect spray painted noodle wreaths for Christmas,
hand prints set in clay for Mother's Day,
and cards with backward letters for Father's Day.

For $160,140, there is no greater bang for your buck.
You get to be a hero just for:

* retrieving a Frisbee off the garage roof,

* taking the training wheels off a bike,

* removing a splinter,

* filling a wading pool,

* coaxing a wad of gum out of bangs,
and coaching a baseball team that never wins
but always gets treated to ice cream regardless.

You get a front row seat to history to witness the:

* first step,

* first word,

* first bra,

* first date, and

* first time behind the wheel.

You get to be immortal.
You get another branch added to your family tree,
and if you're lucky, a long list of limbs in your obituary
called grandchildren and great grandchildren.
You get an education in psychology, nursing, criminal justice, communications, and human sexuality
that no college can match.
In the eyes of a child, you rank right up there under God.
You have all the power
to heal a boo-boo, scare away the monsters under the bed,
patch a broken heart, police a slumber party,
ground them forever, and love them without limits. So . . one day they will like you, love without counting the cost.That is quite a deal for the price!!!!!!!

Love & enjoy your children & grandchildren!!!!!!!

Thursday, April 20, 2006

Look mommy! I'm doing it on my own!



Mia's still a little wobbly, but she is sitting up for long stretches at a time on her own now. It's amazing how much babies are able to do in the first 5 1/2 months of life!
Mia returned to "big girl school" yesterday after spending Monday and Tuesday with my parents. Apparently, Miss Mary and Miss Frankie weren't as attentive as Mimi and Pappy - they said she had a very fussy day. At home, when she holds her arms up to be picked up we oblige. That doesn't fly at big girl school. I guess being away from big girl school for 5 days and then having to go back was an adjustment. Maybe there is more to it....Mia hasn't slept that well the last 2 nights. She isn't running a fever, so maybe her gums are bothering her. I don't know....it would be easier if she could just tell me what's wrong. :-)
She is starting to do the cutest thing - kissing. It's a work in progress. She grabs your face (or hair) with both hands and lunges towards your lips with her mouth WIDE open. It's so sweet. Nothing in the world is better than her little wet, sloppy kisses!

Sunday, April 16, 2006

Good weekend and a not so good weekend....





This was Mia's first Easter and she looked like an ablsolute doll in her Easter dress and bonnett - as you can see from the pictures. On a sad note, Ryan's grandmother passed away on Saturday night. Please keep his family in your prayers...

Friday, April 14, 2006

I love a bubble bath!!!

Stop taking pictures, daddy! I'm trying to nap!

Wednesday, April 12, 2006

Mia and her Daddy

Happy Messy Eater!!!

A happy baby from now on!!!

This post is more of a vent than anything. Sunday night and Monday night were unhappy nights at our house. Mia got a little off schedule while I was out of town - not Ryan's fault, she just wasn't used to being away from me. Ryan did a great job while I was gone!!! Anyway, I'm just tired of reading all the books, magazines, and websites about how babies need to put themselves to sleep, need to be in bed by 7:30, need to sleep all night in their own crib in their own room, must breastfeed, ect....They make you feel like a terrible mother if you don't follow all of the "rules" of parenting an infant. Well, no more! Mia is a happy baby and a good baby - until you try to make her schedule too strict. The first 5 months of her life have flown by and she will only be a baby for a short while. I'm going to enjoy every minute of it and make her as happy as she can possibly be. I am a good mother and I love my daughter more than anything in the world and I'm going to raise Mia the best way I see fit. I am sure I will make mistakes along the way, but we'll learn from them and keep chugging along. I just hate it took me 5 months to realize that I'm the best resource for raising my daughter.
Sorry for the vent. After deciding all of this, we had a WONDERFUL night last night. Mia is such a sweet baby and a joy to raise. Ryan and I are so lucky to have her!

Thursday, April 06, 2006

To my child...

Just for this morning . . . . .I am going to smile when I see your face and laugh when I feel like crying.
Just for this morning . . . . .I will let you choose what you want to wear, and smile and say how perfect it is.
Just for this morning . . . . .I am going to step over the laundry, and pick you up and take you to the park to play.
Just for this morning . . . . .I will leave the dishes in the sink, and let you teach me how to put that puzzle of yours together.
Just for this afternoon . . . . .I will unplug the telephone and keep the computer off, and sit with you in the backyard and blow bubbles.
Just for this afternoon . . . . .I will not yell once, not even a tiny grumble when you scream and whine for the ice cream truck, and I will buy you one if he comes by.
Just for this afternoon . . . . .I won't worry about what you are going to be when you grow up, or second guess every decision I have made where you are concerned.
Just for this afternoon . . . . .I will let you help me bake cookies, and I won't stand over you trying to fix them.
Just for this afternoon . . . . .I will take us to Mc Donald's and buy us both a Happy Meal so you can have both toys.
Just for this evening . . . . .I will hold you in my arms and tell you a story about how you were born and how much I love you.
Just for this evening . . . . .I will let you splash in the tub and not get angry.
Just for this evening . . . . .I will let you stay up late while we sit on the porch and count all the stars.
Just for this evening . . . . .I will snuggle beside you for hours, and miss my favorite TV shows.
Just for this evening . . . .When I run my finger through your hair as you pray, I will simply be grateful that God has given me the greatest gift ever given. I will think about the mothers and fathers who are searching for their missing children, the mothers and fathers who are visiting their children's graves instead of their bedrooms, and mothers and fathers who are in hospital rooms watching their children suffer senselessly, and screaming inside they can't handle it anymore.
And when I kiss you goodnight I will hold you a little tighter, a little longer.
It is then, that I will thank God for you, and ask him for nothing, except one more day .............

~Author Unknown

Tuesday, April 04, 2006

One more...

Pics from the weekend





5 months old...

It's so hard to believe my little girl is 5 months old today. She is so much fun at this age. I wish she could stay little forever. It seems like only yesterday I was in the hospital having her. Happy 5 month old b'day Mia!
I wanted to post some pics from this weekend from Mia's trip to Ware Shoals to see mema, Jim, Mitzi and Art. It was a good trip and beautiful weather for outdoor pictures. Mia behaved very well. She let everyone hold her and only got fussy when she was sleepy.
This coming weekend we have Aunt Chasity's bachelorette party. Ryan's mom and grandma will be keeping Mia. I know I'll have fun, but I've never been away from her this long - it's going to be hard! I'm taking off 1/2 day Friday so I can spend some time with her.